I recently photographed Ted Nugent. I know, I know his name rings controversy with many who don’t like his politics or his passion for hunting and guns and those who think he leans too far to the right for their taste. This is not for me to decide, we each have our own beliefs which might be just as biased in the opposite direction, he’s entitled to his beliefs just like every other American. Regardless, he’s a self-taught artist who has has a successful career in music and continues to literally rock the stage and has done so for many years. I’m not interested in anyone’s opinion on his politics or beliefs, my job is to capture the artist and his artistry, it’s what I do.
Not many artists begin their set with the Star Spangled Banner….Ted did and the room stood in respect, it was a great Patriotic entrance.
You can see in his face, he truly loves his craft. Please enjoy the photos
Almost eight years ago I adopted a kitten. Okay he adopted me, because we all know you never own a cat, they own you. However this little guy literally reached his paws out to me as I made my second pass through the pound. How could I resist? I brought him home that day. He’s not like any other cat I’ve ever been owned by, he’s different. Different how you ask? He’s intuitive; he understands me and my moods better than just about any human I’ve ever been around.
On days I don’t feel well he sticks close by laying against whatever is ailing me at the time, headache, stomach, etc.. At times he will even lay on the part of my body which is hurting at that moment. I don’t know how he knows, he just does.
Yesterday I had spent much of the day on Facebook (yeah I know, big mistake), but I had nothing really planned, all my work was caught up and I wanted to see what was going on with all the political rhetoric (again a big mistake). I totally understand everyone has an opinion, and each side think they’re right and try to force it upon the opposition to prove their point, but there comes a time to just stop.
I woke up just not feeling right, kind of in a bad mood. No one else lives with me, it’s just the cat and I, so I had to backtrack as to what triggered those feelings. This morning I came to the conclusion of how much the negative noise of social media had really affected me over this past election and inauguration of our 45th President. When I realized Harpo had not slept on my bed or next to me all night, I knew he was sensing something wasn’t right with me. He came in around 5:30 this morning, jumped up on the bed at the far right corner and barely acknowledged me.
How did this happen? None of those posts were actually pointed at me, but something did happened at the end of the evening that set me off prior to going to bed. Someone began verbally attacking one of my friends for something she said on a post I had made because she didn’t agree with his philosophy, I immediately fired back and removed his post. Harpo picked up on this and didn’t even sit with me on the couch as he usually does, he snoozed on the floor….totally out of character for him. Somehow his instincts told him I was in a bad mood and he steered clear of me all night and all this morning. He didn’t even beg for his breakfast, he waited patiently for me to feed him. I left the house feeling bad, knowing I had upset my little black & white buddy. He understands me. I know he will be back to loving me tonight, I will make sure of it. But my point in all of this is, if a cat can pick up on the negativity, then how is it affecting each of us? I know I didn’t sleep well, and I obviously was in a melancholy mood, so now what? First I prayed, asked for the spirit of negativity to be lifted. Then I made a decision regarding reading what is on Facebook. I will keep scrolling, if it’s political in nature, no matter what side it’s on I will steer clear and even hide the posts if needed. I will not engage in any of the online badgering/bullying that is happening and I will choose to be joyful throughout my day. This year I chose the word “Intentional” as my word for the year to work on in my own life. I am going to be intentional in what I post, to make sure it’s free of negative language and to make sure it’s uplifting to whoever reads it. I choose JOY! And I will listen more to my cat, because he knows.
I am going to go a bit off topic on this blog from what I normally post. First of all it is my blog so I can get more personal from time to time and today is that time.
I want to address those who are “devastated” by the choice American made for President of the United States. First he is not the ideal choice….the ideal choice was eliminated early on. Next I will address what real devastation is.
Real devastation is waking up and finding out your father has passed away, and you are nine months pregnant. Real devastation is finding out your child has cancer and won’t live to see his/her teen years or even his/her first birthday. Real devastation is finding out you have cancer and you’re not sure if you can overcome it. Real devastation is a parent burying their child who has died tragically. Real devastation is coming back from battle and being treated like a third class citizen; maybe missing limbs and your dignity and dealing with the horrors you experienced in your tenure overseas. Real devastation is seeing your fellow man being treated as less than human, no matter who they voted for. Real devastation is experiencing the horrors of a tornado, flood, hurricane or earthquake and have nothing left of your existence that you worked so hard to build. Real devastation is waking up wondering how you are going to feed your children because you have to pay the rent and you don’t have anything left for food. Real devastation is finding out someone you love has taken their life. Real devastation is being homeless and not knowing if you will be alive in the morning because of your circumstances. Real devastation is not having water to drink, try going a day with out any beverage that requires clean water to make.
If you are upset over how things are going then volunteer. There are plenty of opportunities for you to help those who need it. Homeless shelters, soup kitchens, organizations to help those with cancer, nursing homes where people have no family to spend time with or who care about them, volunteer with habitat for humanity and help build someone a home, donate to worthy gofundme causes, pet shelters where animals could use a little love. If you don’t like the political climate then volunteer for your party of choice. There is a whole plethora of other organizations who could use someone ready to make a change in lives.
I have experienced many of the real devastations life has to offer and I am still here, the sun came up and yes they affected me and still affects me, but they have not made me bitter, instead have allowed me to understand, care and love deeper.
We are the change, not a man in an office. Love and cherish the people around you. Feed a homeless person, give them YOUR coat if it’s cold out. Have integrity, show people what it means to be passionate about a cause, but do it in love; be the change.